Kenneth & Diane Barrow
Busan Korea 2014-2017
Farewell Picture
Monday, July 17
Tuesday, May 30
We had a wonderful mission
conference/tour for our missionaries, with Elder Dallin H. Oaks and his wife,
Elder Gerrit W. Gong and his wife, Elder Choi Yoon Hwan and his wife Sister Koo
Bon?, and Elder Jung Tae Gul (area Seventy). The time with them was so short
but I was happy that at the beginning of our time with them they shook the
hands of all our missionaries. Then the meeting began. With so many people
speaking there wasn’t that much time left for Elder Oaks. The visiting authorities rushed out at the
end of the meeting with Dad conducting to end the meeting. I don’t know how but
Dad got us to the Lotte Hotel (where they were all sleeping overnight) before
they arrived even though they left before us. That is where we ate dinner; the
same hotel restaurant we ate at with Elder and Sister Whiting. The buffet was delicious. I enjoyed visiting with Sister Oaks as we
went back to the buffet for more food. She shared with me about their courtship
and how/when she met President Boyd K. Packer.
Back at the dinner table Elder Oaks shared with all of us their
courtship. Elder Oaks’ first wife had
died of cancer two years earlier. She had prepared their children by telling
them that Elder Oaks could not live alone and that they would need to help him
find a wife/accept her. After each of his four daughters came to him saying it
was time for him to marry again, THEN he was willing to make it a matter of
prayer. One morning he felt especially inspired to talk with Elder Ballard
about the matter. Elder Ballard had met a woman the week before who had come
into his office applying for a job, who was Sister Oaks. They went for walks
and visited family members every day of their courtship; though they did not “go
out in public” for people to start talking/gossiping. They were married August
25, 2000 which was a short month and a half after meeting each other. I asked
Sister Oaks what it was like telling her mom she was going to marry an Apostle/feelings/etc.
Sister Oaks told me that it wasn’t quite like how I might imagine. Sister Oaks
is a convert, who served a mission in Japan. During the dinner conversation she
mentioned that she had been disowned (but she did not go into details that her
family must have accepted her back because she now has a good relationship with
them). Her parents/family would not have
thought about the church influence issue when meeting him. In fact, when Sister
Oaks was explaining to her parents about Elder Oaks her father said, “Are you
trying to tell me he’s a Republican?!” It was fun talking and they were very
good about answering questions. We felt very comfortable around them/at ease. It
was fun to see them eat ice cream for dessert just like us (we weren’t the only
ones who wanted dessert as everyone at the table got some!).
Monday, May 22
These mission president
seminars are wonderful as we learn and discuss and grow spiritually. I remember
being so nervous attending our first seminar, not really knowing the purpose.
This session was different as this is the only time we did not have a homework
assignment. Over the two days of instruction we learned about such topics as
the difference between a special witness and an especial witness, spiritual gifts,
the growth of individual missionaries, when someone feels the Holy Ghost for
the first time, inviting the right way, make it delicious, focusing
missionaries efforts to teach and work with youth and young adults, MLC-how to
be a council member, the missionary daily schedule (which was recently
changed), simplify key indicators for conversion, working with priesthood
leaders, the missionary interview and zone conference schedule, the connection
between developing Christ-like attributes and increasing convert baptisms, and
a separate sister session. The sister
session was conducted in a separate room with the wives of the area presidency
speaking on the topic of Ask in Faith/Fear. We were each given a gift bag with
a couple of talks that were used/quoted from as the sisters spoke, along with a
sweet syrup/topping that we each are holding up in the picture. I will remember Sister Wada (the wife of the
area temporal affairs manager) as they were mission president and released a
year ago, as well as their son is Ben’s age and was enrolled in the same online
Seminary class. I will remember Sister
Sonksen as being hilarious! She told us that in years to come her husband will
be dead and she won’t remember a thing as she will probably have Alzheimer’s. I will remember Sister Madsen with her voice
sounding like Kaylene Coleman-they are cousins!
It was bittersweet saying goodbye to these wonderful mission presidents and
their wives along with the area presidency and their wives because we were not
there in person to talk during meld and travels to and from the temple and
other places and activities. I will
remember the Zarbock’s especially in advising/helping with an island mission. I will remember the Smith’s with their
connection with the Nielsen’s/close friendship.
I am impressed with the Welch’s with their attitude and desire as she battled
cancer, and continued to serve faithfully. My life is so easy! I am so blessed! I will remember the fun time when President
Whiting and his wife came for a mission tour, and did not have dry cleaning
service late at night. I will remember
Sister Yamashita teaching our missionaries to Open Your Mouth! I will remember the Choi’s singing I Love To
Sing! The outgoing mission presidents
and wives shared their testimonies, before the area presidency and their wives
shared their testimonies. What a privilege to listen in on that and
participate.
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